Inā nohoʻoe i kahi hoʻolimalima me nā keikiʻaʻole i komo i kahi kaiāulu kipi , ponoʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu i kaʻikeʻana i ke kānāwai laulā e palekana iāʻoe a me kouʻohana mai ka kū'ē'ē. Aia ma loko o nā papa hana hoʻonaʻauaoʻo 7 mau papahana i kāpaeʻia he " kūlanaʻohana ," e pili ana i ka hikiʻana o nā keiki ma lalo o 18. No kēia mālamaʻana, e noʻonoʻo pahaʻoe no ke aha e hele ai nā konohiki he nui me ka hoʻokomo a me ka hoʻoikaika i nā kānāwai e hoʻokaʻawale i nā keiki .
Hiki keʻano likeʻole ka hoʻowahāwahāʻohana ma mua o nāʻano likeʻole. ʻAʻohe kumu kānāwai no ke meleʻana i nā lāhui e pili ana i ko lākou lāhui, ka lāhui o ka home, aʻo ka wahine paha. Akā he mea maikaʻi no ke konohiki e hoʻokuʻu i nā keiki - ināʻo nā kānāwai o ka haku'āina e pili ana i ka palekana i ka olakino a me ka palekana o nā keiki, a inā he kūpono.
ʻAʻole paha he mea kānalua kēia, no ka meaʻaʻohe mea e makemake eʻike i nā keiki iʻeha, aʻo nā konohiki i hanaʻole i ka pale no ka mālamaʻana i nā mea hoʻolimalima iā lākou iho.
No laila, pehea lā e hiki ai iāʻoe ke haʻi inā he kānāwai ke kānāwai ma kou hale kūkulu? E nīnau wale iāʻoe iho i kēia mau nīnauʻelua:
E mālamaʻia ka rula e palekana i ka olakino a me ka palekana o nā keiki
ʻO nā kaʻula e pili pono i nā mea a pau,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i kēia ho'āʻo. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo ka papa hoʻolimalima e hoʻokuʻu ana i nā keiki mai kahi hanaʻoluʻolu ma nā wahi maʻamau i nā keiki kūponoʻole. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka paleʻana i ka hana maʻamau i nā wahi maʻamau he maikaʻi, akā, no ke aha e hōʻoleʻole ai i ke kūlana o ka hihia, me ka nānāʻole mai i nā keiki aiʻole nā mākua?
Eia kekahi, e hopohopoʻole i nā lula e pili ana i ka paleʻana i nā keiki no ka mea ua hoʻopiliʻia lākou me nā kānāwai'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana, inā loaʻa ka waiʻauʻau i kou hale, aia nō ia he kau papa wai e mālamaʻia, a he nui nā mea e pale ai i nā keiki (e laʻa, ma ka mea e pono ai ka mālama mākua ma lalo o kekahi mau makahiki).
Akāʻo ke kānāwai e hōʻoki ana i nā keiki mai ka waiʻauʻau i loko o kekahi mau hora e manaʻoʻia paha i ka hāʻawiʻana i nā mākua i kahi manawa eʻoliʻoli ai i ka loko iʻa -ʻaʻole ma ka paleʻana i nā keiki mai ka pōʻino.
He pono ka rula
Inā ua paneʻoe i ka "yes" i ka nīnau mua, pono paha ke kānāwai. Akā, hiki i ke kaʻina hana i mālamaʻia i ka mālamaʻana i nā keiki hele lōʻihi. Eia kekahi laʻana, pono nā keiki a pau ma lalo o 18 - me nā haumāna kula kiʻekiʻe -ʻo ka mālamaʻana o ka makua i ka wā e hoʻohana ai i ka waiʻo kahiʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma kāna ho'āʻoʻana e mālama pono i nā keiki.