Uaʻike ka hapanui i ka waiwai o ka nane pono , a uaʻikeʻia kēia ma kekahi o nā hua'ōlelo i heluʻia maʻaneʻi. E hoʻomanaʻo i nāʻano likeʻole mai kahi moʻomeheu a hiki i kekahi. E hāpai i ka manawa e aʻo ai i kahi kūpono i kahi o heaʻoe.
Hiki iāʻoe ke kōkua iāʻoe
Inā me kaʻohana a i waho paha a me nā hoaaloha, e mālama ponoʻiaʻoe i nā leʻaleʻa maikaʻi o nā mea a pau e pili ana iāʻoe. ʻO ka haʻaheo wale nō e lawelawe ia e hoʻohālike iāʻoe me ka makapō a me ka pilikino.
"ʻO nā hoaaloha a me nāʻano maikaʻi e lawe iāʻoe i kahi e heleʻole ai ke kālā."
~ Margaret Walker
"ʻO nā hana maikaʻi e wehe ai i nā puka i hikiʻole i ka hoʻonaʻauao maikaʻi loa."
~ Clarence Thomas
"ʻAʻohe mea pale e like me ka mahalo nui."
Lucas
"ʻO ka mea aʻo ia, a ma kahi e noho ai kekahi, hoʻokahi wale nō ka hewa inā he wahaheʻe kekahi."
~ Maurice Baring
Ka Papa Pāʻani Pāʻani a me kaʻAʻai'Aʻona
Inā makemakeʻoe e hana i ka hoʻomaikaʻiʻana i kāu'ōpala, e hoʻomaka me nāʻano papa . Pono wale kekahi poʻe e aʻo i ka hoʻohanaʻana i nā pono pono'ī , aʻo ka poʻe'ē aʻeʻaʻole lākou eʻike i ka mea e hana ai me ko lākouʻeke .
"ʻO ka honua koʻu'ōpū, akā ua hoʻohana au i kaʻiole kūwae."
~ Oscar Wilde
"ʻO kaʻike Manners heʻike maʻalahi ia i ka manaʻo o nā poʻe'ē aʻe. Ināʻoe i kēlāʻike, he mauʻano maikaʻi kou,ʻaʻole paha nā mea āu e hoʻohana ai. "
~ Emily Post
"ʻO kaʻaiʻana i nā hua waina me ka pahi a me ka pua,ʻaʻole ia he mea e kapaʻia he mea hoʻomehanaʻia.
~ Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
ʻO Manny Manners a me nā kānaka huhū
Hiki i kekahi poʻe ke kolohe, no ka mea. ʻAʻole ia manaʻo e pane akuʻoe i nāʻano kolohe me nāʻano koloheʻole. Ke huhū kekahi , e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kou iho.
"E hiki iāʻoe ke ola ma ke ola me nāʻano kolohe, akā,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nāʻano maikaʻi."
~ Lillian Gish
"ʻO ka hana maikaʻi i kekahi manawa keʻimi wale i nāʻano kolohe o kekahi poʻe."
~ H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
"ʻO Rudeness keʻano o ke kanaka nāwaliwali e like me ka ikaika."
~ Eric Hoffer
"Ua hoʻohana pinepineʻia kaʻoiaʻiʻo" ma ka nohona ola e lilo i uhi no ka hoʻowahāwahā. Akā, aia heʻano likeʻole ma waena o ka pololei i kāu mea e kamaʻilio nei a ke haʻi nei nā kānaka i kā lākou mau'ōlelo hōʻino ma lalo o ka inoa o kaʻoiaʻiʻo. "
~ Judity Martin (aka Miss Manners)
ʻO nā Manners for Children, Preteens and Teenagers
ʻAʻole i hānauʻia nā kānaka i kaʻike pehea e hana ai i ka nohona kaiaulu, no laila pono lākou e aʻoʻia i ka hoʻohanohano i ka wā'ōpiopio . Pono nā keiki e aʻo i nāʻano mai nā mākua e pono e lilo i mea hoʻohālike maikaʻi. I ko lākou oʻoʻana i keʻelemakule, e nui aʻe ko lākou manaʻoʻiʻo inā maopopo lākou i ka mea e hana ai. Eia kekahi, e hauʻoli kekahi poʻe e pili ana iā lākou.
"ʻO nā keikiʻoihana paʻakikiʻole i kēia mau lā ke aʻo nei i nāʻano maikaʻi me kaʻikeʻole i kekahi."
~ Fred Astaire
"E hiki ke aʻoʻia kekahi keiki i ka hana maikaʻiʻole me ka ikaika nuiʻole ma mua o ka hoʻomanawanui a me ke hoʻomanawanui, akā naʻe,ʻo ka wāwahiʻana i nā hanaʻino i ka manawa i loaʻa ai, he hana Herculea ia."
~ Emily Post
"Ua hānauʻia mākou a pau i ke koloheʻole,ʻaʻohe keiki iʻikeʻia ma mua me ka lokomaikaʻi e maopopo ai i keʻano o ka hoʻohihiaʻana i nā mea'ē aʻe i ka waenakonu o ka pō."
~ Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
"He mau mea maʻalahi nā kamaliʻi e like me ko lākou mau mākua ma ka ho'āʻoʻana e aʻo iā lākou i nāʻano maikaʻi."
ʻAʻohe meaʻikeʻole
Hoʻohanohano i kekahi
ʻO ke kumu no nāʻano maikaʻi ka mahalo. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e mahalo i nā mea'ē aʻe,ʻoiaiʻo kaʻike pono i kahi e hoʻohanaʻia i ka wāʻahaʻainaʻaina ka meaʻole. E hoʻomanaʻoʻiaʻoe he kolohe. Inā mahaloʻoe i nā poʻe'ē aʻe, hiki paha iā lākou ke lokomaikaʻi iāʻoe. Ināʻaʻole, e hoʻomanaʻo wale nō ua hanaʻoe i ka mea kūpono.
"ʻO nā hana maikaʻiʻo ia wale nō kahi e hōʻike aku ai i nā poʻe'ē aʻe e mahalo kākou iā lākou."
~ Bill Kelly
"ʻO ka hoʻopono kaʻoihana koho ma waena o nā manaʻo maoli."
~ Abel Stevens
"ʻAʻole e pōkole ke ola, akā, he wā mau no ka mahalo."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
"ʻO ka hoʻohanohano a me ka noʻonoʻoʻana i nā mea'ē aʻe, e like me ke kālā pale kālā a me ka loaʻaʻana o nā kālā."
~ Thomas Sowell
"ʻAʻole pono ka inoa o ke kanaka e like me kona lōʻihi."
~ LM Montgomery
ʻO ka hua'ōlelo hope loa no Manners
ʻO ka mahalo, ke mahalo, a me kaʻoluʻolu, he mea nui ia ma nāʻano pili kaiaulu a me nāʻoihana. ʻO Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners) ka'ōlelo hope loa maʻaneʻi:
"ʻO ka hoʻopiʻi ka hana kaiāulu a kanaka. Inā he hermitʻoe ma ka mauna,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hopohopo no ka hana hoʻopunipuni; inā hele mai kekahi i ka mauna, he pilikia kāu. i nā kaiāulu kūpono. "