ʻO ka hāʻawiʻana i ka wahine mare he mea kūʻokoʻa kahiko ia mai nā lā i lilo nā wāhine i waiwai o ko lākou makua kāne a hiki i ko lāua maleʻana a lilo i waiwai kā lāua kāne. ʻO ka wahine mare i hāʻawiʻia aku no ka uku o ka wahine mare. I kēia lā,ʻoluʻolu,ʻo ka hapanui o nā kānakaʻaʻole lākou e nānā i nā wāhine, akā,ʻo ka "hoʻokuʻu aku i ka wahine mare" i hiki ke lilo i manawa nui e mahalo ai i kou mau mākua a mahalo i nā kuʻuna.
Ma lalo, eʻikeʻoe i nā'ōlelo kuʻuna a me nā hua'ōlelo'ē aʻe no kēia māhele o kaʻahaʻaina mare. Ma mua o ka hāʻawiʻana, hiki i kou mau mākua ke pane aku i ko lākou mau hoʻomaikaʻi no kāu hui. Hiki ke hoʻohanaʻia kēia mau hua'ōlelo'ē aʻe inā uaʻeha kou makuakāne aʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hele iāʻoe i lalo o ka wāwae, aiʻole inā makemakeʻoe eʻae i nā mea'ē aʻe ma mua o kou makua wale nō i kēia manawa. Hiki ke hoʻohanaʻia kēia mau pōmaikaʻi me ka hoʻohuiʻana, a iʻole ma ka hakahaka paha, nā hoʻohikiʻana o ka wahine mare .
No ka wahine kūʻokoʻa,ʻo ka manaʻo o ka "hoʻololi" paha, he nui a he wahine moekolohe paha. Ma mua o ka lix wale nō i kēia māhele o ka hui, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi iā ia i mea hōʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka mana.
Nā'ōlelo maʻamau: nā pane a nā mākua
"ʻO wai ka mea nāna i hāʻawi i kēia wahine e mare i kēia kāne?" ʻO wai ka mea nāna e hāʻawi mai i kēia wahine e mare i kēia kāne? "
Pane: "Ke hana nei au" a "paha kona makuahine a me aʻu ke hana" a "i konaʻohana a ke hana nei au" aiʻole (ma kahi hoʻokahi) "hana mākou."
E like me kēlā me kēia Kūlana o nā Mākua
ʻO Officer: "Na wai i hāʻawi i kēia wahine a me kēia kāne e mare i kekahi i kekahi?
E pane: (All parents in unison): "Ke hana nei mākou."
Ka HoʻohuiʻOihanaʻole no nāʻohana
- Ke hiki lākou i ka hopena o kahi wāwae, ua kāohi ka makua kāne a makua paha o ka wahine male iā ia a laila e hoʻopaʻa i kāna mea i manaʻo ai. ʻAʻohe'ōlelo i'ōleloʻia.
- Inā holo kahi kāne ma kahi kaʻawale, hiki iā lākou ke hele mua i ko lākou mauʻohana, e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka pua a me ka honiʻana, ma mua o ka hālāwaiʻana ma ke kuahu.
Hoʻokumu i ka wahine
"ʻO wai ka mea nāna i hāʻawi i kēia wahine e mare i kēia kāne?"
Pane: "Ke hāʻawi neiʻo ia iā ia iho, akā, me ka pōmaikaʻi o konaʻohana."
Pōmaikaʻi wale
ʻO Officiant: "ʻO wai ( inoa ) ka hoʻomaikaʻiʻana o kaʻohana e mare ai (inoa)?
Pane: "( He / she )."
ʻO ka hoʻomaikaʻi nui aku
ʻO " nā inoa o nā mākua" , ke kākoʻo nei pahaʻoe i ka hoʻoholo o kāu keiki e hui pū me ka inoa , a ua hoʻohikiʻoe e loaʻaʻo ia i lālā o kouʻohana mai kēia lā aku?
Pane: "Me ke aloha i loko o ko mākou naʻau no ka inoaʻelua a me ( inoa ), hana mākou me kaʻoliʻoli."
ʻO ka makuaʻaʻoleʻo ia he ola lōʻihi
"Na wai i hāʻawi i kēia wahine e mare i kēia kāne?"
Pane: "Ma ka inoa o nā mea a pau i'ākoakoa maʻaneʻi, aʻo nā poʻe a pau i hikiʻole ke noho me mākou i kēia lā, ke hana nei wau."
aiʻole
ʻO Officiant: "He mau pōmaikaʻi ko kēia me kēiaʻohana no kēia maleʻana?"
Pane: "Me kaʻike i aloha a kākoʻoʻia e kēiaʻaha like me kaʻu e hana ai, e hāʻawi wale ana wau i kuʻu hoʻomaikaʻi."
aiʻole
E pane aku, "No na mea me makou , a me na mea mamua, ke haawi nei au i kuu hoomaikai i keia hui."
Ka mahaloʻana i ke aloha i kouʻohana
ʻO: "I kēia lā, i ko mākou hui pūʻana ( inoa ) a me ( inoa ) ma ka maleʻana, hoʻohauʻoli mākou iā lākou i ko lākou hoʻomakaʻana i kahiʻohana hou.
Akā, uaʻike mākou e hoʻoikaikaʻia kēia lālā hou o kaʻohana a me ka waiwai e nā aloha, nā loina, a me kaʻike o nā aʻa o ko lākou mauʻohana.
E hoʻopōmaikaʻi pahaʻoe i nā inoa o nā makua i kā lākou maleʻana. E hōʻoluʻolu aneiʻoe iā lākou i ka wā o ka hauʻoli, a hoʻoikaika iā lākou a me ko lākou mareʻana i nā manawa o ka pilikia? "
E pane a: "E makemake makou."
aiʻole
"ʻO kēia wahine maikaʻi loa i hele mai maʻaneʻi wale nō. Ua alohaʻia a mālamaʻia e lākou, ko lākou mauʻohana, ke hilinaʻi nei iāʻoe no ka meaʻai,ʻike, alakaʻi, a me ke aloha. Iʻoleʻoe, hikiʻole i kēia lā Mai kēia lā aku, pono lākou e kākoʻo iāʻoe ma nāʻano'ē aʻe, akā e hilinaʻi nui lākou ma ia kākoʻo.
"Me kēia noʻonoʻo, noi wau ( inoa makua ), ma keʻano he mau 'elele o kouʻohana: e lawe aneiʻoe i kēia ( kanaka / wahine ), ( inoa ), i loko o kouʻohana a i loko o kou mau naʻau?
E pane a: "E makemake makou."
(E nīnau hou aku i nā mākua'ē aʻe, a pane pū lākou i ka'ōlelo "makemake mākou.")
"ʻO ka hoʻopōmaikaʻi o kā lākou maleʻana, e hoʻopauʻia i loko o nāʻohana a mau loa aku."
ʻO ka hōʻikeʻana he Hoʻohanohano
"ʻO ka maleʻana ka mea e pōmaikaʻi ai, akā, heʻelua pōmaikaʻi ka heleʻana o ka poʻe hele i ka'āpana male me ka'āpono a me ke aloha i ko lākou mauʻohana a me nā hoaaloha.ʻO wai ka hanohano o ka hāʻawiʻana i kēia wahine e mare i kēia kāne?
Pane: "Ma ka inoa o konaʻohana aloha a me nā hoaaloha, hana wau."
I ka hoʻohanaʻana i kekahi o kēia mau hua'ōlelo'ōlelo, hiki i ke kuʻuna o ka hāʻawiʻana i ka wahine mare ke lilo i manawa no ka hoʻokomoʻana a mahalo i kouʻohana hānau, i kou hoʻomakaʻana i kahiʻohana hou.