Pūʻulu He KoʻuʻO ia
Hero Images / Getty Images Heʻoiaʻiʻo. Ke manaʻo nei wau e lilo i mea hoʻohālike i ka wā i hala. ʻO kahi wai pēpē kahi kokoke loa i kahi hanana. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua ho'āʻo mākou e kaomi i ka envelopp me nā pākū keikikāne piliʻike . ʻOiai, e nānā kākou, e kono ana iā lākou e hana i kahi hana i hana maoliʻia no kahi hana male kāne -ʻaʻole pono e maikaʻi. No laila, he aha ka mea e hiki mai ana? ʻO ka māhele o ke kāne e hōʻike nei.
ʻO kēia mele hou loa he manaʻo maʻalahi loa ia: Ke hoʻolauleʻa neiʻoe i kahi hui me nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai e kono, me kaʻole o kā lākou kāne, a me ka hauʻoli pūʻana i ka hōʻikeʻana i ka wahine o kāu pēpē.
Hiki i kēia ke hana nui a iʻole kahi hui pilina o kou mau hoaaloha a me kaʻohana wale nō. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana ia me kaʻaina awakea, aiʻole nā'āpō a me ka palaoa. He pololei nā rula - maikaʻi,ʻaʻohe kānāwai. ʻO koʻu manaʻo maoliʻo ia ka mea makemake maoli o nā kānaka e pili ana i ka māhele male.
ʻOiaiʻaʻole nā kānāwai, aia kekahi mau mea like i loaʻa iaʻu ma ka kamaʻilioʻana i nā poʻe e pili ana i ka pāʻina: makemake lākou e kaʻana like i kā lākou leka maikaʻi i kahi ala kūikawā a me nā mea mahaloʻole a makemake lākou e hana me nā poʻe i mālama nuiʻia e lākou. Aʻo kaʻai, loaʻa kahiʻanoʻai.
ʻO kaʻike nui
ʻO kahi kahi i loaʻa ai ka mea nui o kaʻaoʻao. ʻAʻoleʻoe makemake e hoʻomaka i ka pāʻina i ke 2:00 pm a hoʻolaha i ka hoʻolaha ma ka hola 2:01 pm E ponoʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i nā haʻahaʻa e kūkulu ai; Eʻai nā hoaʻai i kekahi i kekahi. He nui nā kānaka e mālama nei i kēia mauʻaoʻao i ka manawa i laweʻia aiʻole i kahi ala e hoʻomaopopo ai iāʻoe iho he keiki'ōmaʻolua a he kaikamahine paha.
I ka manawa i hanaʻia ai kēia, ua hiki i ka manawa e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea a pau inā he kaikamahine a keiki paha ma ke alanui. ʻO kaʻaoʻao maʻamau ka meaʻai. ʻO nā manaʻo mua aʻu i lohe ai, he mau pōpō. Ua maopopo i ka haʻalulu a iʻole ka hueloʻeleʻele i waho a hōʻike i loko o ka'ōlohelohe i kahi kala e hōʻike ana he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha. (I kekahi manawaʻaʻoleʻike nā mākua a lākou.) Ke lawe nei lākou i kahi lapaʻau pololei mai ka ultrasound i kahi meaʻai aʻohi i ka pōpō - eʻike ana i ka manawa hoʻokahi e hana ai nā meaʻai.)
ʻO nā manaʻo'ē aʻe aʻu iʻike ai me:
- piha nā'ōleʻa piha i ka'āpanaʻulaʻula a viole
- he helium balloon bouquet i loko o kahi pahu e ala aʻe i ka weheʻiaʻana
- momi ka mīkini i ka lole e hōʻike i kahi leka paʻi
- ua kuʻu iho hoʻokahi papa i kāna mau kikoo i nā mea hoʻokaniʻulaʻula i hōʻikeʻia
- ʻo ka manu manu a me kahiʻeke huna i loko
- weheʻia o ka envelopp e hōʻike ana i ka pane
- me kahi e haʻi aku ai (paha paha i kahi mele)
- Nā hanana hou aku e hōʻike i ka wahine o kāu pēpē
ʻIke loa,ʻo kekahi o kēia mau manaʻo e hoʻonui i ka manawa a me ka ikaika e hoʻolālā no kahi pāʻina. Inā he mea kēia e hoʻokiʻekiʻe iāʻoe, hiki paha iāʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēia mau manaʻo. Ke manaʻo nei wau he meaʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka poʻe malihini kipa i ka maʻalahi loa me ka lehulehu. Ināʻole, hikiʻoe i ka loaʻaʻana o nā pōpō o ka poʻe e'ōlelo nei, "Pehea kāna'ōlelo?"
Nā makana a meʻole mau makana
ʻO kēia ka nīnau i nā manaʻo he nui. E like me kaʻu i'ōlelo mua aku ai, inā i kahi kahi o ka wai o kāu pēpē, he aha ka pilikia o nā makana? ʻOiai e manaʻo ana i nā hāʻawi keiki pēpē male e like me ka meaʻole eʻike i mua o nā mea i piʻi. Hiki paha iā ia keʻano o kaʻumi o ka diaper a me kaʻauwai puke heʻoi aku ka wikiwiki. ʻOiaiʻaʻole i kākau ponoʻia kēia mau rula i kēia manawa, ua noaʻoe e hōʻoia i ka wai. Manaʻo wau he wahi pilikino kēia e hiki ai iāʻoe ke pane nou iho.
Paʻa Aloha
ʻO wau kahi pāʻina pāʻina o ke kera. Aloha wau i kahi pāʻina nui. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka hiki iāʻoe ke puka i nā kī kī, nā kī kī kī a me nā kakaka a me nāʻoluʻolu i mea e hōʻike i ke kākoʻo no kāu "hui" he meaʻoluʻolu ia iaʻu. ʻO kēlā'ōlelo,ʻaʻohe mea ponoʻole, he mea leʻaleʻa wale nō e hoʻonui i ka hauʻoli o ka pāʻina.
(ʻAe, uaʻike wau ua kapaʻia lākou he mau kāne kāne male, akāʻo kāu e haʻi nei inā he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha kāu pēpē.)ʻAʻole wau i maopopo i ka moʻolelo kahiko inā hoʻomaka mākou e hoʻohana i ka hua'ōleloʻo ke kāne e kū'ē i ka wahine no ka nānāʻana i nā leka uila. aiʻole no ka makemakeʻole e 'ōlelo i ka' ōlelo pili wahine, akā, 'aʻole wau i'elike ...)