Eʻike i ka maikaʻi o nā poʻe hele eʻike i ka lā hānau
Keʻelemakule loa paha ka'ōpiopio a me ke kaikamahine paha e pāʻani i ka huelo ma luna o ka hoki, akā makemakeʻoe e pāʻani i ko lākou hui, he aha kāu e hana nei? E ho'āʻo i ka lā hānau o ka pāʻani hou a noi aku i nā malihini e pane i nā nīnau pili i ka lā hānau.
E hōʻike i kaʻikeʻana o ka poʻe malihini i ka keiki a me ke kaikamahine paha a hiki paha iāʻoe ke hōʻike i kekahi mau meaʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o ke kaʻina hana,ʻoiai me nā hopena maikaʻi loa.
Hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi i kēia pāʻani no ka mareʻana o kekahi mau lā i ka lā male mare.
Aia kekahi mauʻano likeʻole o kēia pāʻani e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi, e like me ka nui o nā malihini i loaʻa iāʻoe, a me keʻano haʻalulu o ke keiki. ʻO ka lōʻihi uaʻikeʻoe i ka malihini o ka lā hānau,ʻo kaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kou kūlana i nāʻoihana paʻakikī ma kekahi o kēia pāʻani.
E hoʻomanaʻo i ka mālamaʻana i kāu mau nīnau pilikino
He manaʻo nui: No ka mea,ʻo ka pahuhopu ke kumu e hoʻohilahilaʻia ai (no keʻano aloha) no ka malihini i ka hanohano, ua kūpono kēia hoʻohālikelike i nā hoa aloha iʻike i kekahi i kekahi manawa a ua kūkulu i ka hilinaʻi a me ka mahalo. (Ināʻaʻoleʻoe, hikiʻoe i ka hopena e hōʻino i ka hopena o ke keiki hānai a iʻole ke kaikamahine paha,ʻaʻohe mea nāna e makemake i kā lākou lā kūikawā!)
E noʻonoʻo mau i kāu mau pepeiao i ka wā e hoʻopunipuni ai i kāu mau nīnau, e hōʻike ana i ka pono kūpono ma luna o ka lehulehu. ʻAʻole pahaʻoe e makemake e nīnau i nā nīnau e pili ana i nā mea aloha ma mua o ka lā hānau hānau ināʻo kona makuahine i loko o ka lumi, e like paha.
Hōʻailona Hoʻohanohano Hōʻaho Kūlana Honua
Hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā mau kiʻi Hollywood kahiko, kahi e'ōlelo ai nā mea kaulana ma nā'ōleloʻano haʻahaʻaʻole e pili ana i kahi malihini hoʻokipa. ʻO kēlā kumu ke kumu o kēia hoʻohālike o kāuʻaoʻao.
Eia kahi pehea e pāʻani ai: E hāʻawi i ka papa inoa o nā nīnau e pili ana i ke keiki a'ōpio paha.
Loaʻa ka manawa o nā malihini i ka pane e pane i nā nīnau a lākou e hiki ai ke kūpono.
Hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo me nā nīnau (aʻo ia kahi e hiki ai i ka pāʻani ke leʻaleʻa). E nīnau i kekahi mau nīnau pilikino e like me ka punahele punahele a ka malihini hānau, ka meaʻoniʻoni, aiʻole ka meaʻai. E kiola i kekahi mau mea e pili ana i "ka manawa mua i ona aiʻo ia" a "ʻo ke kaikamahine mua i hōʻole aku iā ia."
No nā kāne, hiki iāʻoe ke nīnau i nā nīnau e like me ka wā a me kahi i hālāwai mua ai lāua, ai ka heleʻana i kā lāua honiʻana. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i nā makana ma luna o ka mea e pane pololei i nā nīnau pono'ī,ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻopiha i nā nīnau i mua ae hāʻawi i ka makana i ka mea nāna i loaʻa nā pane maikaʻi.
Hōʻike Hōʻike Hōʻike kiʻi
ʻO kēia ka hōʻailona o ka pāʻani kokoke loa i ka hōʻike televise o ka Newlywed Game, kahi i hōʻoia ai nā hoa mare hou i ka maikaʻi o kaʻikeʻana o kekahi i kekahi ma ka pane pololei i nā nīnau e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi.
No ka lā lā hānau o kēia pāʻani, e noi i kāu mau malihini no ka manawaleʻa e hana ai i "nā mea hakakā," meʻoe a iʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe e hana e like me ka emcee a iʻole ka luna kānāwai.
E hoʻonoho i kāu mau hakakā manawaleʻa i mua o ke keʻena a nīnau i nā nīnau i mua o nā mea'ē aʻe. E hāʻawi i nā manaʻo i nā mea noi no nā pane pololei. ʻO ka mea i loaʻa i nāʻoihana nui loa, loaʻa ia ia kekahi makana e pili ana i ka lā hānau o ka lā, a he mea hoʻokani wale paha iā lākou a i kekahi mau mea'ē aʻe.
E like me kekahi hana lā hānau , makemakeʻoe e mālama i nā mea māmā a me ka hoʻokipa. He kūponoʻole i ka hauʻoli i ka'ōpio a me ke kaikamahine paha, akā ma ka hopena o ka lā,'ākoakoaʻia nā mea a pau no ka hoʻokipaʻana iā lākou a me kā lākou lā kūikawā.