I loko o nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni,ʻo ka makua wale nō ka mea e hele ana i kahi wahine male i ka aisle, e hoʻopili ana i ka'ōniuʻana, akā,ʻaʻole pili kēlāʻano kuʻuna i nāʻohana āpau a me nā kuʻuna maʻamau. ʻO kēia mau lā, nui nā koho'ē aʻe.
E Pāpā: Ka Moʻomanaʻo maʻamau no ka heleʻana i ka wahine ma lalo o ke kaha
He mea maʻalahi ka makua kāne o ka wahine mare i ke kanaka maʻamau no ka hana. No nā kānaka he nui, he makua ka mea nāna i alakaʻi a hiki ke helu nuiʻia.
Inā pono kēlā iāʻoe, a laila paha e hauʻoli paha kou makuakāne e hele iāʻoe i lalo o ka wāwae.
Ke hala nei kou makuakāne
ʻO ka kohoʻana i kekahi e pani i kahi o kou makuakāne ma hope o kona makeʻana, he mea paʻakikī loa ia. I kēia manawa, pono paha ke hele a hele i lalo o kahi aʻi i kahi hoahānau, makua kāne, aiʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe nāna i alakaʻi a me ke aloha i kou ola.
ʻO nāʻohana i hui pūʻia
I kekahi manawa,ʻaʻole ka nīnau, "Inā e hele koʻu makuakāne iaʻu ma lalo o ke aniani," akā, "ʻO wai lā ka makuakāne?" Ke loaʻa iāʻoe kahi stepdad e pili loa ana iāʻoe, aiʻole inā i hānaiʻoe iāʻoe e nā mākua kāne pīkoi, hiki iāʻoe ke koho e hele pū nā kānakaʻelua meʻoe. Hiki paha iā ia keʻimi i kou makuakāne ola, me ka hoʻomanawanuiʻana iā iaʻaʻoleʻoe e haʻalele i kāna kuleana, ke makemake wale neiʻoe e mahalo i kou makuakāneʻelua. Ua koho kekahi poʻe e hele i ka lima-i-lima me nā kāneʻelua a iʻole hoʻokahi papa e hele wāwae iā lākou i ka hapalua, me ka "lima-away" i ka papaʻelua.
Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e pili kokoke i kou makuakāne ola,ʻaʻohe kumu e koho ai iā ia e hele iāʻoe ma lalo o ke ala. ʻO kou makuakāne, hānai kāne, aʻo kekahi mea'ē aʻe paha he pani pani maikaʻi. Eia hou, i loaʻa paha kekahi mau manaʻoʻeha, no laila e mākaukau e kamaʻilio ma waena o lākou me ke aloha, kaʻike, a me ka ikaika o kou mau manaʻo.
ʻO Mama wale nō
Ināʻoe i hānaiʻia e kahi makuahine hoʻokahi, hiki iā ia ke hopohopo i ka mahalo i nā mea a pau i hāʻawiʻia iāʻoe ma ka noiʻana iā ia e hele pū meʻoe.
ʻO nā Mākua
Ma ka huiʻana o ka poʻe Iudaio, e hele ana nā lālāʻelua o lāua i lalo i ka wāwae, me nā mākua. Hiki i nā mākua ke hāʻawiʻole i kēia koho ma keʻano he hōʻailona o ka pale like-ma waena o lāua a me kā lāua hoa pili kokoke a ma waena o nā mākua.
E mālama pono i ka hiki i kāu wahi hālāwai ke hoʻokipa iʻekolu poʻe e hele kokoke ana i kekahi me kekahi, keʻoleʻoe i kahi lole nui. Hiki paha iāʻoe ke koho e hele wale i kahi wale nō, a ma muli o ka (a ma mua paha o) kou mau mākua.
ʻO ke kāne wale nō
Ma ka mareʻana o Hindu, he mea maʻamau ka heleʻana o ke kāne mare i luna o ka lio, me konaʻohana e hele wale nō. Heleʻo ia me kāna wahine me kona makuakāne ma ko lākou home, aiʻole ma ke kuahu.
ʻO ka Nani wahine wale nō
ʻO kēia kahi koho nui loa no nā mākua kāne kahiko a no nā māheleʻelua . Hiki iā ia ke'ōlelo heʻaʻohe mea nāna e "hoʻokuʻu iā ia," akā, no kona makemake pono'ī. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole pono e lilo i'ōlelo hoʻopiʻi. Ua koho pinepineʻiaʻo ia i ka halaʻana o ka makuakāne o ka wahine male, aʻaʻoleʻo ia i makemake e like me ka mea e pono ke hoʻopiha i kona wahi.
Nā Male male
ʻO ka hapanui o nāʻano moʻomāʻau e manaʻo e loaʻa iāʻoe kahi wahine mare a me kahi kāne mare.
Akā, pehea kāu hana inā loaʻa iāʻoe he mau wahine maleʻelua aʻelua paha mau kahu? Ua koho kekahi mau kāne i ka pili kokoke i nā kuʻuna hīmeni, ke kohoʻana i ka hoa wahine hou e hoʻokō i nā moʻolelo o ka wahine mare a me nā kāne nui e hoʻokō i nā mea o ke kāne mare. ʻAʻohe kumu e hikiʻole ai i kekahi kanaka ke hele i lalo i ka wāwae ma ka lima o kona makuakāne e hālāwai me ka mea i manaʻoʻia ma ke kuahu. Ua makemake nā kāne'ē aʻe e hana i nā kuʻuna hou. Hiki iā lākou ke koho e komo i loko,ʻaʻole i ka pae holoʻokoʻa, aiʻole e hoʻololi i kahi moni eʻike ai i ka mea i hana mua.
Hui likeʻo One
ʻO ka heleʻana i lalo i ka lima lima i kahi lima. 'Ōleloʻia, "Ke komo nei mākou i kēia māhele ma keʻano he hoa." E hāʻawi aku kekahi i kekahi i ka ikaika e hoʻomaha ai i nā aʻalolo aʻike i ka hauʻoli ma kaʻaoʻao. ʻO ka hanaʻana pēlā eʻikeʻoe kekahi i kekahi ma mua o ka hui, akā e loaʻa iāʻoe kekahi manawa'ē aʻe e hoʻomanaʻo ai.
ʻAʻohe Walk Aʻo
Hoʻolahalaha maikaʻi kekahi mau hoa i mea e hui ai me nā malihini ma mua o ka hui, a laila, me ka nānāʻoleʻana iā lākou iho, e kū ana i mua o ko lākou luna. Hoʻomaka ka hoʻomaka me kaʻole o ka papa. He kūpono loa kēiaʻano no nā hana maʻamau a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻaʻole, aʻo keʻano, i ka wā e hele anaʻoe!
Ke kohoʻana i ka mea e hele iāʻoe i lalo i ka aisle
ʻO ka mea e koho iāʻoe e hele iāʻoe ma lalo o ke āpau, eʻikeʻoe he kūlana hanohano. Hōʻike akuʻo ia i ka honua,ʻo ia ka mea āu i hilinaʻi nui ai no ke kākoʻo a me ke alakaʻiʻana iāʻoe e hana i kekahi o nā hoʻoholo nui loa o kou ola.