ʻO ke alakaʻi i ka mareʻana
ʻO ka hoʻolālāʻana i ka lua o ka male mare i kekahi manawa paha e like pahaʻoe me ka heleʻana i kahi mīkini melemele. A me he mea lā e like me ka manaʻo o nā mea a pau e pili ana i nā mea kūponoʻole: "ʻAʻoleʻoe eʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo" aiʻole "ʻAʻole pono iāʻoe ke hele i ke keʻokeʻoʻelua" aʻole, "ʻO'Elopi ke kumu o ka pauʻana o ka male mua - ponoʻoe e hele i kahi pule pule nui i kēia manawa. " Ināʻoe e hoʻolālā ana i ka lua o ka male mare ma ka ho'āʻoʻana e hoʻokaʻawale i nā kuhihewa mai nā manaʻo, eia ke alakaʻi no nā mea a pau mai ka mea eʻaʻahu ai i ka pehea e kākau inoa ai.
Mai hopohopo - uaʻelemakuleʻoe, ua akamaiʻoe a ua loaʻa iāʻoe kekahiʻike ma lalo o kou kāʻei - e lilo i kēia manawa i mea pahele, pololei?
Nā loleʻaʻahuʻelua a me kaʻaʻahu
ʻO ka mea maikaʻi,ʻo ka mea kahiko e pili ana no kaʻaʻahuʻole i ka keʻokeʻo no ka mea, ua puka ka lua o ka male ma ka puka. Hiki iāʻoe keʻalohi i nāʻoluʻolu a me ke nānā aku iāʻoe. ʻO ka hapanui o nā mōneka e moe ana, ua hoʻokomo mua i kā lākou "aliʻi wahine i kaʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo" i ka manawa mua, a no laila e makemake ai e nānā i keʻano'ōpio e like me ke kālepa kelepona a iʻole ka lole makamae. Eia naʻe, ināʻoe e paʻi i ka manawa mua, aiʻole makemakeʻoe e loaʻa hou kēlā manawa aliʻi wahine,ʻaʻohe kumu e ponoʻole ai.
ʻO ka loiloi paʻakikī wale nō? Mai komo i kaʻaʻahu āu i kau ai i ka manawa mua. ʻOiai paha he mea ho'āʻo e mālama i ke kālā a pale i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kāhikoʻana i ka lole,ʻo kaʻaʻahuʻana i kāuʻaʻahu mare kahiko e kau aku i kāu mau mea ma mua. Ke manaʻo nei mākou e nānā i nāʻaʻahu ma kekahiʻanoʻokoʻa, ka silhouette, a me ka lole'ē aʻe ma mua o kou kāleʻa mare mua e pale ai i nā manaʻo o keʻano e hele nei.
Nā manaʻo no ka mea eʻaʻahu i ka lua o ka mareʻana:
- ʻO ka mea hoʻolaha, nāʻaʻahu mareʻole i loko o kekahiʻaʻahu
- ʻO kahiʻaʻahu mare pāʻaniʻole ma ka hulu, pale pale, a iʻole kahi hiʻohiʻona
- ʻO kahi apo i hoʻopilikiaʻia i loko o kēlā me kēiaʻano
- He lole'ahuʻula
E haʻi ana i kāu hoʻolauna i kaʻohana
ʻO nā kānaka mua loa āu e haʻi aku aiʻo kāu mau keiki nō ia.
Hiki iāʻoe ke nīnau iā lākou inā makemake lākou e haʻi aku i ko lākou makua'ē aʻe, aiʻole inā makemake lākou e hoʻolaha akuʻoe i ka lono. Ināʻaʻohe āu keiki, ponoʻoleʻoe e haʻi aku i kāu hoa-hoa - e haʻi wale aku iā lākou ināʻoi aku ka nui o ka loheʻole o ka mea'ē aʻe. Manaʻo ka poʻe he mea maʻalahi ka hoʻounaʻana i ka leka a me ka leka uila e'ōlelo ana "makemake wau e kaʻana aku iāʻoe i ka lono maikaʻi a John me aʻu e kamaʻilio nei. Ua haʻi mua wau i kā mākou mau keiki, a ua noi aku iā lākou e lilo i māhele o kaʻaina mare. . " Ma hope, hoʻolaha aku i kāu hoʻokomoʻana ma ke ala maʻamau.
Ka Hoʻokomoʻana i nā Keiki i loko o ka Hōʻike Hou
Inā he mau keiki kāu, makemake pahaʻoe e hoʻolilo iā lākou i lālā kūikawā o kāu pāʻina lua. Ma muli o ko lākou mau makahiki, he pua puaʻa paha, he mea komo lima, he kahu wahine'ōpio , he kahu wahine paha, aʻo ke kanaka maikaʻi a me ke kaikamahine maikaʻi paha. Malia paha e makemake lākou e heluhelu i kekahi mea i ka wā o kaʻahaʻaina, aiʻole e hana i kahi meaʻai nani i ka wā e hoʻokipaʻia ai. E mālama i kaʻoluʻolu i ko lākou kuleana. Inā he'ōpiopio paha kāu mau keiki, hiki paha iāʻoe ke kono aku i ko lākou makua a makua paha e mālama i kahi e noho ai.
ʻO ka mea nui kaulana o ka mareʻana,ʻo ia ka'ōleloʻana i nā'ōlelo a kaʻohana i nā keiki ma hope o nā'ōlelo hoʻohiki a ke kāne mare. Eia kekahi laʻana, "I, (inoa), ke hoʻohiki paʻa nei wau e mālama au iāʻoe, aloha a mahalo iāʻoe e like me aʻu nei." Hāʻawi kekahi poʻe i kekahi'āpana liʻiliʻi a me kekahi'āpana waiwai, e'ōlelo ana i kekahi mea e like me "E lawe i kēia i hōʻailona o ko mākouʻohana, a me ko mākou aloha iāʻoe." E noi hou aku paha nā mākua'ē aʻe i ko lākou luna e hoʻopōmaikaʻi iā lākou ae haʻi aku iā lākou hoʻokahiʻohana i hui pūʻia.
ʻO ka hui o ka huiʻana a me nāʻoihana hui pū kekahi no ka lua o ka maleʻana.
Hiki paha i kekahi mau hoa kāne ke hoʻokomo i ka inoa o kā lākou mau inoa ma kā lākou mau konoʻana, e like me ia, "Ua konoʻo Diane Jones a me Mark Smith iāʻoe e hui pū me lākou i ka hoʻokipaʻana i kā lākou maleʻana, a me kā lāua keikiʻo Winston Jones, lilo hoʻokahiʻohana."
Ke kākau inoa a me nā makana hōʻailona no ka Weddingʻelua
Ke'ōlelo nei nā kānāwai o nā kauāʻaʻole pono nā makana i ka mareʻana . ʻO ia no ka mea, he mea kōkua nā makana no nā makana maʻamau i kekahi mau wāhine i kūkulu i ko lākou hale, a no ka mea,ʻo ka manawaʻelua, nā wāhine mare a me nā kāne kāne i ko lākou mau home pono'ī. Eia naʻe,ʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o nā makana i kēia manawa no ka mareʻana. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa inoa e like me kāu i hana ai no kāu mahele mua. ʻOiai paha iāʻoe nā pahuhopu nui o ka home, ke kūkulu neiʻoe i hale no kāu pilina hou a makemake pahaʻoe e kākau inoa no nā moe hou, nā meaʻaina a me nā mea'ē aʻe e noʻonoʻo ana i kāu mau mea like.
Nā Hōʻailona Kūhaka no ka HōʻailonaʻElua
No ka mea likeʻoleʻaʻole i hāʻawi mauʻia nā makana o ka mareʻana,ʻaʻole e hoʻolei mauʻia nā uapale mare no ka wahine manawa lua. Eia naʻe, hiki i kāu mau hoaaloha ke koi aku i ka hoʻolei. Ināʻo ia, e nānā i kahiʻokoʻa likeʻole e like me "nā mea kūʻai i ka waihona wai wai" kahi e noiʻia ai e kiʻi mai i nā mea keiani, nā mea pale, a iʻole ka hue wai inu punahele.
ʻO wai ka mea nāna e koho no ka mareʻana
ʻO nā rula ma luna o ka mea e uku ana no kaʻahaʻaina maleʻaʻole ia e like me ka lua o ka manawa. ʻO ka maʻamau,ʻo ka wahine mare a me ke kāne e hoʻokaʻawale i nā kumukūʻai o ka lua o ka maleʻana. Inā paha lākou i hāʻawi i nā koina o kāu mahele mua, ponoʻoleʻoe e manaʻo i nā mākua a me nā hoahānau paha e komo i loko.ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā hāʻawi lākou, hiki iāʻoe keʻae i kā lākou kōkua me ka lokomaikaʻi.