ʻO kekahi o nā mea maʻamau a ke kanaka e nīnau ai e pili ana i ka hana a nā poʻe'ē aʻe, a pinepine i ka piliʻana o nā keiki. Ua makemake kekahi o ia mea eʻike inā loaʻa kekahi mea e hiki iā ia ke hana e aʻo i nā keiki a kekahi poʻe i hana hewaʻole i ka lehulehu.
Eia ka mea āna i kākau ai:
"Ua aʻo wau i kaʻu mau keiki i keʻano o ko lākou mau'ōpiopio, aʻaʻole au i lawe iā lākou i nā haleʻaina maikaʻi a hiki i kaʻikeʻana uaʻike lākou i ka hana.
Mahalo nui wau i ka nui o nā mākua e noho ana a hoʻokuʻu i kā lākou mau keiki liʻiliʻi i nāʻahaʻaina likeʻole o nā mea'ē aʻe i uku lākou i nā kālā paʻakikī. Ke hele neiʻo ia i kaʻino loaʻaʻole mākou makemake i kaʻu kāne e hele hou i kā mākou hale punahele. "
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo:
ʻAʻohe nui āu e hiki ai ke hoʻololi i nāʻano o nā keiki a kekahi poʻe. Ināʻoe e'ōlelo pololei i ke keiki, e huhū paha nā mākua. Ināʻoe e haʻi aku i kekahi mea i ka makua, hiki paha iāʻoe ke pale i kahi maka e hiki ai ke piʻi koke.
Pane:
Hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu ka nui o nā mākua no ka meaʻaʻole maikaʻi ka'ōheaʻana o ke keiki no ka kamaʻilioʻana a me kaʻaiʻana. He mea paʻakikī loa ia no ka poʻe i lawe i ka manawa e aʻo ai i kā lākou mau keiki i ka pono kūpono e kū ai i mua o ka poʻe iʻole. Loaʻa iāʻoeʻelua koho no ka wā e hiki mai ana: E hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio i ke kahu hale hale a noi aku e nohoʻoe ma kahi wahi'ē aʻe, aiʻole e hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa kahi haleʻaina'ē aʻe me kahiʻano maʻalahi.
ʻO ka mea makemake i nā mākua
ʻO ka hapanui o nā mākua e makemake i kā lākou mau keiki e hana maikaʻi , akā,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike i nā mea a pau e hana ai. He mea paʻakikī i nā mākua ke hele i ke ao me kahi keiki, akā e hālāwai me ke kūmākena o kahi keiki māluhiluhi e koho ana e hana i ka lehulehu. ʻOiai e hala ka manawa a e ulu paha ke keiki e lilo i kanaka kūpono, hiki i ka hōʻeha ke waiho i kekahi makuahine a makua paha e huhū.
Inā hikiʻoe i kahi makua, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa i kekahi mau pane. Ināʻike lākou a hāmama a'āpono i kahi'ōlelo aʻo haʻahaʻa e hoʻohana i kēiaʻike ma keʻano he manawa aʻo e kōkua ai e hoʻololi i ka hana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ināʻike lākou e hoʻopiʻi i kāu loiloi, e hoʻi aku a hāʻawi aku iā lākou i kahi kūʻokoʻa i ka hiki ke hiki.
Nā haleʻai
He mau 'ano hale kai likeʻole ka mea e hiki ai i nā mea hīmeni. Me nāʻohana hoʻokipaʻohana,ʻaʻohe kumu e lawe ai nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki i kahiʻahaʻaina maikaʻi a hiki i ka manawa makaukau a hiki iā lākou ke hana i keʻano kūpono a loaʻa nāʻano papa kūpono. He nui nā haleʻai e pili ana i nā keiki, a ināʻoe e hālāwai me kahi keiki kolohe, mālama koke ka haleʻaina i ka wikiwiki.
Hiki ke hāmama nā wahiʻahaʻaina maʻamau i nāʻohana, no laila hiki paha iāʻoe ke noi i kahi papa hoʻomaha aiʻole ka papaʻaina ināʻo nā leo a me nā hana a nā keiki liʻiliʻi e pilikia ai iāʻoe. Inā hōʻoleʻole lākou, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokipa iāʻoe. Mai poina e waiho i kahi manawaleʻa i kēlā me kēia manawa i loaʻa iāʻoe kahi noi kūikawā.
Ināʻikeʻoe i nā keikiʻehaʻeha ma hope o kou nohoʻana, e noi pono e neʻe. No ka meaʻaʻole makemake ka luna eʻona i kāu hana, inā he papa'ē aʻe ma kekahiʻaoʻao o ka haleʻaina, loaʻa iāʻoe kāu mea e noi ai.
Kūʻai Malls a me nā Kūʻai Kūʻai
Inā kūʻaiʻoe i nā hale kūʻai a me nā hale kūʻai , pono pahaʻoe e launa me nā keiki hana paʻakikīʻole o kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomanaʻo iʻoi aku paha ka huhū o nā mākua ma mua o kou, e ho'āʻo e lokomaikaʻi.
Inā hoʻopilikiaʻole kekahi o nā mea liʻiliʻi iāʻoe, mai kamaʻilio iki i ka makua, aiʻoleʻoe paha i ka hakakāʻana me nā makuahine a me nā makua kāne i hala mua i ka hopena. Inā hahau kekahi keiki iāʻoe aʻeha pahaʻoe ma kekahiʻano, e lawe i kāu hoʻopiʻi i ka mea mālama hale kūʻai a waiho iā ia e hana me ia.
Kou Home
E makemake ana kāu mau keiki e hoʻokipa i kā lākou mau hoa, a no laila eʻoluʻolu akuʻoe iā lākou. ʻO kēia ka wā eʻike aiʻoe i keʻano o kaʻaʻahi e aʻo ai i nā mākua'ē aʻe. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, nuiʻole nā mākua a me nā makuaʻole eʻike i kā lākou mau mamo e noʻonoʻo ai i ko lākou mauʻohana ke hele lākou mai ka home, no laila eʻike pahaʻoe i kekahi hanaʻino mai kēlā manawa a me kēia manawa.
ʻOiai e hoʻoponopono ana i nā keiki a nā poʻe'ē aʻe i kou wā e hele ai aʻaʻole paha i kahi maikaʻi maikaʻi,ʻaʻohe mea kūpono i kahi'ōlelo hoʻopiʻi aʻano haʻahaʻa i ka wā e noho ana lākou i kou home. I kou lōʻihiʻoleʻana, hiki iāʻoe ke haʻi iā lākou e hoʻohana i kā lākou "inu leo" i ka wā e ikaika ai lākou aʻaʻole e lele i luna o ka lako.
Inā loheʻoe iā lākou e hoʻohana ana i ka'ōleloʻino, hiki iāʻoe ke haʻi iā lākouʻaʻole eʻaeʻia kēlā mau'ōlelo i loko o kou home. E ho'āʻo ka nui o nā keiki e mālama, akā ināʻaʻole lākou,ʻaʻohe hewa i ka laweʻana i ka home a iʻole e kāhea ana i nā mākua a hōʻike iā lākou i ka manawa e kiʻi ai i kā lākou keiki.