Mahalo! Ke moe nei kāu kaikamahine. Akāʻo ka makuahine o ka wahine mare (a me ka MOB) he mea maʻalahiʻole ia -ʻaʻole wale he hana nui, akā heʻoihana ua loli nui ma mua o nā makahiki. I kekahi manawa, hana ka makuahine o ka wahine mare i ka hapanui o ka hoʻolālāʻana o ka maleʻana, a no laila, ua loaʻa iā lākou nā hiʻohiʻona iʻikeʻia. I kēia mau lā, eʻike paha kāu kaikamahine i kāna hiʻohiʻona -ʻo ia paha ka mea likeʻole me kāu.
Eia kahi pehea e pāʻani ai i kāu hana me kahi mele.
Nā kuleana o ka makuahine o ka wahine mare:
- ʻO ka mea mua a me ka mea nui, e lilo i mea hoʻolohe maikaʻi, e ka mea hoʻokipa aloha, mahalo mau, a iʻole he kumu kōkua no kāu kaikamahine.
- E kōkua i ka wahine mare eʻike i kaʻaʻahu mare o kona mau moe, a me nāʻaʻahuʻaʻahu'ē aʻe.
- Kōkua e nānā i nā māhele mare a me nā wahi hoʻokipa , keʻole inā e hoʻokōʻia ka male ma kou kūlanakauhale āpau aʻaʻoleʻo kā lākou.
- Ināʻaʻoleʻoe i hālāwai mua, e hoʻokaʻaʻike i nā mākua o ke kāne a hoʻonohonoho e hālāwai.
- E koho i kaʻaʻahu o ka makuahine o ka wahine ma mua i ka wā e hiki ai, a laila eʻike ka makuahine o ka makua kāne i kāu mea i koho ai. Inā hiki, e hoʻouna aku iā ia i kahi pale lole o kaʻili a me nā kiʻi paha i hiki iā ia keʻimi i kahi kapa e hoʻomaikaʻi ai kāu.
- E kūkākūkā i ka hoʻolālāʻana me kāu kaikamahine a me kāna wahine male, e like me ka mea āu e makemake e uku, a me ka helu piha o nā malihini.
- E hoʻopuka koke i ka papa inoa malihini no kouʻaoʻao o kaʻohana, a ma hope aku, kokoke i ka lā o ka maleʻana, e kāhea aku i kekahi o kāu mau malihini i hala i ka RSVPing.
- E mālama i nā keʻena hoʻomaha no nā poʻe malihini i waho o ke kūlanakauhale, a me nā mea'ē aʻe paha.
- Kōkua i ka'ōlelo e pili ana i kahi e hoʻopaʻaʻia ai nā kāne.
- E hana ma keʻano he hostess ma kaʻahaʻaina a me ka hoʻokipaʻana, e hōʻoluʻolu i nā malihini. ʻO kēia kekahi e kū ana i ka laina e loaʻa ana, e noho ana ma kahi papaʻaina, a me ka hōʻoiaʻana ua hoʻokipa ka wahine male i kāna mau malihini a pau.
- E hele i kaʻahaʻaina hōʻailona a me kaʻaina awakea.
- Hiki paha ke hoʻokuʻu i ka wahine male ma lalo o ka wāwae, a / a ma nā wahi'ē aʻe paha o ka hui e like me ka hui hoʻokahi.
- E kōkua i kāu kaikamahine i nā mea'ē aʻe āna e noi ai iāʻoe!