5 Nānā Māhele E hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻouna i nā keiki

E hoʻopau i nā mea a pau a loaʻa i kāu mau keiki e hana

Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻonoho i kā mākou mau'ōpiopio no ka hana maikaʻi i ke kohoʻana i nā hana maʻamau i hiki i ko lākou akamai akā paʻakikī. He nui nā kumu kūpono no ka hanaʻana o nā keiki i ka hana: kūkulu i ko lākou manaʻo hilinaʻi, hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi maikaʻi e noho ai i kaʻohana a hoʻomāmā i kāu hana hana ola. Na nā papa inoa o kēia mau keiki e hāʻawi iāʻoe i kekahi mau manaʻo e pili ana nā hana a ka home i kēlā me kēia manawa o ka uluʻana.

ʻAe, hiki i nā keiki ke hana i nā koho

ʻAʻole makemake kāu 2-3 makahiki i koe ma kaʻoliʻoli wale nō, no ka nui! No laila e hāʻawi iā lākou i nā mea e hoʻomāʻona ai i kou mau maka. Hōʻawī i kou manawa no ka hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana i loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa (a me ke ahonui) e aʻo i kāu kamaliʻi e hana i kēia mau hana maʻalahi.

E hoʻolālā i ka hanaʻana i kēia mau hana me kāu keiki. Ma hope o ka mālamaʻana i kaʻoihana, ponoʻoe e noho i kahi likeʻole a iʻole paha e hana i kahiʻoihana e pili ana. Hiki iāʻoe keʻoluʻolu me nā mele nūnū, mele mele a me nā kani leo.

E aʻo aku i nā pelekikena pehea e lilo ai i kuleana no ko lākou Home

ʻO nā keikikāne, 4-5-mau makahiki, i ka makahiki piha no ka hoʻomakaʻana i nā hana.

Ke makemake nei lākou e hāʻawi a pili aku me ko lākou mau mākua, akā,ʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o ko lākou kūlana ma mua o nā kamaliʻi. Hiki iā lākou ke hahai i nā kuhikuhiʻokoʻa aʻoi aku paha ke ahonui ke aʻoʻoe iā lākou i ke ala kūpono e hana ai i kekahi mea.

Hiki iā lākou ke leʻaleʻa i ka hōʻikeʻike a me ka hana o kahi papa hana. Eia nā hana i hiki i nā'ōpiopio ke aʻo i ke kākoʻo a hiki iāʻoe ke komo i kāu pakuhi:

Ka Papahana Kula-ʻO nā keiki i nā mea e like me ka maikaʻi

Hiki i nā keiki ke kula, 6-8 mau makahiki, hiki ke loaʻa i ka nui, no laila makemakeʻoe e hoʻohana i ka hana i ka wā eʻakaʻaka ai a ma mua o ke kū'ēʻana i nā manawa kū'ē i waena o nā makahiki. E mālama nui i ko lākou makemake ma ka hāʻawiʻana iā lākou i nā pilikia a me ka hoʻokuʻuʻana iā lākou e aʻo i nā hana i hikiʻole i nā hoa keʻaeʻia e hoʻopaʻa. E like me nā manawa a pau, e hoʻomanaʻo pono e hana i nāʻoihana me lākou a hiki i ka wā e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai lākou iā lākou, e kāohi i ka hoʻokolokolo a makemake e hui pū me ka hui. Eia kekahi mau manaʻo:

Pono nā wahine e hoʻomaʻemaʻe

Hiki paha iāʻoe ke hana i nā mea'ē aʻe, akā, ināʻoe e hele i mua i mua o lākou ma ka pilikia o ka hana, hiki iāʻoe ke hana a hāʻawi i kaʻohana. E hōʻoiaʻiʻo e hōʻeuʻeu iā lākou a mahalo i nā mea a pau e hana nei, ināʻaʻole lākou e hana me ka leʻaleʻa. Eia kahi e hiki ai i ko lākou kūlana ke nānā:

E mālama i kāu mau keiki'ōpio me ka mea hou

Makemakeʻoe e mālama i kāu keiki mai ka noho pūʻana me kā lākou kelepona a iʻole mea pona paha? ʻO ka hana hui pūʻana he ala maikaʻi loa ia e pili ai me kāu keiki. ʻAʻole maikaʻiʻoe e noho ana i ka papaʻaina e ho'āʻo nei e puka i waho o lākou i keʻano o ka lā. Ke luhi neiʻoe i ka hana i nā hana a me ke kūkā wale. Hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio nui ma luna o ka holoiʻana i ke kaʻa a hele pū paha i ka'īlio. Eia kekahi mau hana'ē aʻe i hiki i kāu'ōpiopio ke hana i kou wā e launa pū ai me lākou.

Ināʻaʻoleʻoe i maopopo kahi e hoʻomaka ai i ka wā e pili ana i nā hana a me nā makahiki o kāu mau keiki , no ke aha e hōʻikeʻole aku ai iā lākou i kēia papa inoa a noi mai inā he hana e makemake lākou e aʻo e aʻo mua. ʻO kahi papahana hana he ala e aʻo ai i kāu mau keiki i ka mālamaʻana i ko lākou hale i ka manawa e ulu ai. ʻO ka wikiwiki loaʻoe e aʻo iā lākou e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ma hope o lākou iho aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe wikiwiki e hiki ke ho'ōki i kāu hana.